Good Afternoon.
It has been a while, since I last wrote. I have been busy as of late. Work, Fiesta, and the other less important aspects of my life which seem to be filling up my waking hours. I haven't really had much time to do anything else, I haven't touched the Organ since about two weeks ago. All this thinking of taking my language lessons, dance lessons, seem to be very distant and unreachable. Given I only have 24 hours in a day, 7 days in a week and 4 weeks in a month. With work, upcoming school and Fiesta, I don't think I have enough time to squeeze in any more lessons of any nature. Aside from the lessons, I've been thinking about my year end plans. It seems she's bent on going to the US at the end of the year. And I cannot sincerely say that the thought hasn't crossed my mind. But right now, there are indeed more pressing matters to settle like my school fees and the bills. The lessons are going to have to be put on hold. As will my other interests, unfortunately.
I still haven't been writing. I must admit that I have neglected that part of my life, I really don't think I can write anymore. Fantasies of forever after, romantic sunsets and sweet nothings seem so trivial in today's world. There are so many other things that need to be worried upon, thought about, discussed, argued about. I know the world needs hope, which only love can give. But how do you prevent yourself from fully drowning in the impossibility of forever love, in the world today? Maybe I will give them a go again, next week or when I decide to pull myself away from Fiesta. Maybe when school starts, I'll have more time on my hands to review my stories.
Child development. How do you know when you're doing the best for your child? Frankly, I don't think anyone can ever say they are an expert in child upbringing. It's just simply not possible. In my opinion anyway. I don't know what you think, neither am I attempting to try and know what your thoughts on this subject is. Unless of course, you leave a comment, after reading this. It is most welcomed (: So, back to the topic. I've noticed that there are a whole lot of new programs, classes, activities for young children nowadays. How hard really, is it to notice when I've got a younger cousin who is most probably going for at least 25% of the classes suggested by the media, institution or word of mouth? Do parents see this as helping their child develop or as putting more pressure on their child? I know many might say that it's in a way, helping your child to develop. Developing the left brain, developing the right brain, exposure to the arts, early exposure to subjects to put the child ahead of others in school. Are these really necessary? Sure, the syllabus for schools have changed drastically and expanded beyond normal requirement. Is it necessary for parents to put excessive pressure on their children to learn even more outside the bounds of the normal requirement? I admit, learning never ends. Even if you're 100 and almost dying. I don't ever want to stop learning. Because when you do, it means your brain stops working to it's full potential and you are essentially just taking up space. But when is it enough? As we go through Tertiary education, we normally tend to study outside the subject requirements. Simply because it would give us an advantage when it comes to examinations. But as children, toddlers not even of 5 yet, is studying beyond the subject requirement really necessary? How much of a pre school exam paper requires the examinees to quote other theories, or explain in abstract terms? None that I currently know of. What would I do when I eventually decide to settle down and have children? Most probably send them for classes that I've always been dying to go for. And if and when they want to stop, it will be a viable option to them. Yes, maybe that is what I will do.
I am still waiting for UOL to reply to my application. If they have not replied by tonight, I'll give them a call on Wednesday. I'm sure they will be able to tell me if they have sent out a reply or not. Nevertheless, the orientation is this coming Thursday. I'm only pretty excited to be choosing my own timetable. Hopefully, against whatever odds there are, I'll be able to get the time slots that I want x) I will update you further, when I get my reply. Hopefully I will get it soon, very soon.
My birthday is coming, I'm turning 20 soon. It's quite scary actually. I'm finally hitting my early twenties. Next up, the thirties xP I'm going to update my wishlist, so feel free to buy accordingly, if you wish. Otherwise, I'm sure you know me well enough. Nevertheless, it is always the thought that counts! Currently though, if you want to help, you can start by praying that she will be able to make it for the party. Give her a freak time table if it has to come to that, please please please. I want her there, and I don't care if she's working or if she needs the money. I am evil, I don't care.
Well, I really should get going. Off to update my wishlist, and I'll be back soon. Hopefully sooner than next week or even next month. See you soon! And thank you for dropping by!
Amanda Loves You (:
